Beauty comes in many forms and shapes. It also a matter of someone’s taste. Sometimes it has to do with the clothes we choose to wear and sometimes with the way we behave. But beauty has also affected by our self-esteem. To better and for worse, our level of confidence affects the way we feel with ourselves and eventually the way others feel about us. Here’s how self-esteem affects our appearance.
Low Self-Esteem
When someone has a low self-esteem, their whole sense of self is affected by it. Usually, we’ll recognize it from the moment we lay eyes on them. Their posture will be uneven, even a little bent over, they’ll have sloping shoulders and their glaze will most likely be downwards. A person with low self-esteem, will avoid looking you in the eyes, and their embarrassment will show. People with low self-esteem have a hard time believing that they’re beautiful, and on most cases it has nothing to do with the way they actually look. And because they don’t believe they’re beautiful, they lower their heads and try to cover their appearance with unfitting clothes, which sometimes make it harder for others to see their beauty as well. Once someone start to believe they’re handsome, it becomes easier for others to see it too.
High Self-Esteem
When someone has a high self-esteem, it means they are aware of their virtues. And when someone is aware of the best sides of themselves, it is much easier to let it shine, which also makes it much easier for everyone else to see it too. Leave the fact that confidence has more than once comprehended as sexy outside for a minute, when you stand upright and you look others in the eyes, it is much easier to see your beauty, whether it’s coming from within of you or from your appearance.
Believing in yourself and loving yourself is important for your sense of self. Wear your smile and trust in your own uniqueness to shine on. After all, the thing that makes us beautiful is the very fact that each of us looks different from the other, and so there are no two people perfectly alike (ok aside of identical twins).
Help Your Loved Ones to Strength Their Self-Esteem
If you want to strength the confidence of others you can always compliment them and point out their virtues to them, of which they may not be aware. Reflecting them their best sides will allow them to improve their self-esteem and so their sense of self image as well as their feelings towards themselves.